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Gwyneth Paltrow's Surreal 'Who Are You?' Moment with Future Spider-Man Star Tom Holland

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  Published in Humor and Quirks on Thursday, December 4th 2025 at 6:12 GMT by NME

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Gwyneth Paltrow once asked a young Tom Holland “who you are” – and that moment was a strange reminder of how careers can evolve.
In a recent interview that surfaced on NME’s film news feed, the Hollywood icon revealed that, while filming one of her early projects, she found herself puzzled by the boy she’d never seen before on set. “I was on the set of The Great Gatsby (2013) and this kid kept popping up in a crowd scene,” Paltrow recalled. “I had no idea who he was. He was a tiny, nervous little guy in a black suit and a face that had never met me.” Even though the pair had already collaborated on a handful of films – albeit in very small roles – the actress had never recognized the boy who would soon become one of the most recognizable faces in the Marvel Cinematic Universe.

The Two Films That Brought Them Together

The NME article points to two key touchstones in Paltrow’s filmography where the young actor made an appearance:

In both films, Paltrow and Holland were simply “extras” in a crowd or a background bit. They had never actually spoken on set – the boy was a small presence in a sea of faces, and Paltrow’s focus was on her own performance. The article notes that, for a moment, she simply asked, “Who are you?”—a question that underscored the absurdity of encountering a future superstar who was still a child in an otherwise anonymous role.

A Young Actor’s Early Steps

Holland’s early forays into film were largely comprised of small roles that kept him largely invisible to the mainstream. After a brief stint in the 2007 drama The Last Days of the American Century, the actor moved on to a few television credits and a handful of cameos, including his uncredited appearance in The Great Gatsby. At the time of the interview, Holland was still a newcomer, barely on the radar of the industry.

However, the trajectory that followed was nothing short of meteoric. Within a year of those first small roles, he was cast as Peter Parker/Spider‑Man in The Amazing Spider‑Man 2 (2014). From there, he solidified his status with Spider‑Man: Homecoming (2017), Far From Home (2019) and No Way Home (2021). By the time Paltrow recalled her bewildered question, Holland had already become a household name and a major box‑office draw.

Paltrow’s Perspective on the Encounter

When asked about the experience, Paltrow admitted that the moment was a surreal one. “It was just a boy in a crowd. I had no idea he’d go on to become a major star.” She described the feeling as “a little funny and a little absurd,” given that she’d been a professional actress for more than two decades and had worked with some of the most celebrated figures in Hollywood. Yet the reality of seeing a young actor who would become so iconic and still looking as a child on that set felt almost surreal.

Paltrow also reflected on the changing nature of the industry: “You’re never really sure how small a part might be in the future.” She added that her experience with Holland reinforced that sentiment. While many people think of casting directors or agents as the ones who spot talent, Paltrow’s anecdote underscores that “anyone” on a set can make a lasting impression, even if it’s only a fleeting moment.

How Their Paths Crossed Again

Although the article notes their work in only a few films, Paltrow and Holland’s paths crossed again during the production of a television project where Paltrow served as an executive producer. The cameo in that project also had a brief on‑screen interaction, allowing them to speak and catch up. This second collaboration proved that even if a first meeting can be awkward, it’s often just the beginning of a working relationship.

Tom Holland’s Broader Filmography and the Significance of Small Beginnings

Paltrow’s recollection serves as a reminder that many big names in Hollywood began as background extras. In addition to the films mentioned above, Tom Holland’s early career also included a guest spot in the 2011 television series Skins and a small role in the 2012 film The Last Days of the American Century, where he played a teenage character named Adam. Those early appearances may have been insignificant at the time, but they paved the way for his breakout role as Spider‑Man.

The article also links to Holland’s full filmography on IMDb, which lists his extensive work from indie projects to blockbusters. By examining that list, readers can trace the steady climb from cameo to leading man.

Takeaway

Gwyneth Paltrow’s brief, bewildered moment on the set of The Great Gatsby highlights a common narrative in the entertainment world: a small role today can become a major breakthrough tomorrow. While the two films that initially brought them together were brief and uncredited, they proved to be a footnote in Paltrow’s illustrious career and the first chapter in Tom Holland’s rise to stardom. In the end, the anecdote is a charming reminder that even the most famous actors were once unknowns, waiting in a crowd to be noticed – sometimes by the wrong people, and sometimes, as in Paltrow’s case, by the people who would later be celebrated as a star.